Tila Tequila shocked the world on April 18 when she revealed via Facebook that she is expecting. The baby daddy has come forward as Thomas Paxton Whitaker, 42, a struggling musician.

He revealed exclusively to Radar Online the pair are not together. He even feels the reality starlet took advantage of him!

"Even though I had nothing negative to say about Tila in my comment to you, and the two of us are soon to share a child with one another, Tila and I are not together as a couple and we are no longer pursuing a relationship with each other," he explained.

"She definitely isn't living with me. I was trying to remain cordial without adding to her already notorious past, and now I am now experiencing the fallout from my generosity."

It turns out Whitaker filed for bankruptcy seven years ago, which he dubs as reason for the split.

"Somehow because I went through hard times like a lot of other people when the economy took a decline, and had to file for bankruptcy, I'm somehow unsuitable to be connected to in a relationship," the musician revealed.

Radar only revealed the identity of Tequila's baby daddy within the last few days. At that time, he was singing a much different tune, stating:

"We are all very happy about the arrival of a new edition to our family, and about the blessing of the birth of a child into the world. Tila is right around 10 weeks into her pregnancy, and yes ma'am I am the father of her/our baby. Tila has a wonderful relationship with my daughters Sierra, Jenna and Brianna... and they love each other very much!"

At the end of the interview, Whitaker proceeded to slam his former lover once more.

"If the media could only the hear the kinds of comments Miss Nguyen makes about them as individuals behind closed doors. I doubt she would ever get a drop of news coverage again for the rest of her days, but then Hollywood is a lot about deception and manipulation...isn't it?"

We hope they are able to stay on good terms, at least for their baby's sake! Do you agree? Let us know!